Kevin
I met Kevin shortly after I moved to town. I worked at a coffee shop and he stopped in a few times a week. After a month or so we started...
Anniversaries, the good, the bad, and everything in-between
I’m one of those people who enjoys looking back at where I was a year, or two, or however many ago on the anniversary. It’s usually...
Vulnerability is the most accurate measurement of courage
I had a client call yesterday and it’s the first one I’ve lost sleep over. She has PTSD from when she was raped at 15. She has learned to...
You're not broken. You're not damaged.
I have a copy of The body keeps score by Bessel Van Der Kolk. It is old, marked up, and tattered. I have paragraphs highlighted, ideas...
Feminism and teenage boys
I’m the oldest of a large family, 3 boys, 3 girls, 2 dads, my mom, and a million furry things. My mom did most of the raising. She’s the...
Searching for your agency?
‘”Agency” is the technical term for the feeling of being in charge of your life: knowing where you stand, knowing that you have a say in...
Responding to rape
I believe that humans have the ability to choose how to respond. There are definitely challenging times where it may not see like there...
Home
What's the difference between a home and a house? The main difference between them is that house is concrete. A house refers to a...
I have a cow. How about mooooo?
Read me ----> https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/jan/07/is-everything-you-think-you-know-about-depression-wrong-johann-hari-lost-co...
My wedding ring
When I met my now ex husband, I'll call him Scot, I was 19 and he was 41. I fell in love quickly and hard. We talked of travel and a life...
